tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post1322000889971362309..comments2024-01-03T08:18:54.427-08:00Comments on Young and Restless.: Growing PainsAlihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08003287925875649802noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-88900131977293168692011-05-24T11:54:45.762-07:002011-05-24T11:54:45.762-07:00I know I'm a little late reading this and leav...I know I'm a little late reading this and leaving my comment, but I'm just catching up on blogs after a long weekend away. I can't begin to imagine how you must feel. My ex and I dated for nearly two years, and even now after nearly 4 months since our split it still hurts. You are right about a break up being like a death. And I understand what you mean about growing apart, the situation was the same for me. I'm not really sure what advice to share other than stay strong and follow your heart. Thinking about you and hoping things get easier!Caitlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18199227337345187600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-10731724543808938982011-05-23T11:09:07.738-07:002011-05-23T11:09:07.738-07:00Just wanted to let you know I love you. I was in ...Just wanted to let you know I love you. I was in your position about 2 months ago and I'm still trying to get through it on a day to day basis. Take the time you need to mourn. It gets better, and you definitely learn and grow stronger from it. I'm here for you girl.<br /><br />Love you.Cameronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13502818991574794496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-41309948511073604102011-05-22T17:46:08.436-07:002011-05-22T17:46:08.436-07:00oh, honey. I am sorry.
I've been there - the...oh, honey. I am sorry.<br /><br />I've been there - the long term boyfriend, the one you thought you would spend your life with, the growing apart that you know is both of you but you feel like you've left him behind. I was there with my high school boyfriend & it was between our sophomore & junior years of college. I was the business scholar, executive vice president of my sorority, ready to plan for my future. He was interested in poker night & exploring cheap beer. You are much smarter than me, however - I kept dragging the relationship along in complete denial while he was blatantly cheating on me.<br /><br />Long story short, I did mourn the relationship. HARD. & I think that's the way it should be because in that mourning, I discovered what I really wanted from a relationship. So yes, absolutely mourn the relationship. Learn from it. & keep growing.<br /><br />You're going to be okay. More than okay, even if it may not feel that way right now.<br /><br />I could tell you some pretty funny stories about the next following years, too. Including me pushing him off a barstool when I ran into him downtown & was engaged to my husband.Heir to Blairhttp://theheirtoblair.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-7068167003645576662011-05-22T17:35:27.849-07:002011-05-22T17:35:27.849-07:00Aww, Al, I'm sorry you are going through this....Aww, Al, I'm sorry you are going through this. Let's grab coffee or something soon, ok? <br /><br />Love ya girl!Aly @ Analyze Thishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00271943163246702599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-90718051018277823152011-05-22T17:35:10.862-07:002011-05-22T17:35:10.862-07:00aw love i'm so sorry. we're both dealing w...aw love i'm so sorry. we're both dealing with this right now and it's absolutely horrible. i wish i had words that could make this better and bring a smile to your face, but i know what it feels like and sometimes being sad is all you can do. you are so strong and have your head on straight, you will do the right thing.<br /><br />please feel free to get in touch with me if you just need someone to chat with. find me on twitter @kenlipeterson because i don't think i'm "searchable" on facebook. (for some reason i decided to be some sort of facebook ninja..?)<br /><br />xoxoxo.Kenlihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17697214251608511369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-362083477762544112.post-16137219848584559562011-05-22T17:17:52.158-07:002011-05-22T17:17:52.158-07:00Ali, I am going through the exact same thing, exce...Ali, I am going through the exact same thing, except its with my husband. We have just grown apart and it kills me to see my marriage falling apart and not being able to fix it. I think this is a risk everyone takes when we fall in love. If you wanna talk, email me, it might help being that we are in similar situations. Keep your head up and know that eventually, no matter what happens it will get easier. <br /><br />Ashley<br /><br />acreid08@yahoo.comAshleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06726478664219793810noreply@blogger.com